September 29, 2010

Weekly Belly Picture- 8 Weeks


How far along? 8 Weeks 4 Days
Total weight gain: 3 Pounds
Body Changes? Belly looks like it did when I was 14 weeks pregnant with Max. Areola's have gotten much bigger.
Sleep: Sleeping fine, very very tired.
Best moment this week: Hearing baby #2's heartbeat and knowing that things were progressing as they should.
BabyGender: Still very torn.
Food Cravings: I'm having an aversion to Salads and Eggs.
What I miss: Not feeling so tired and nauseous and having awful headaches.
Symptoms: Exhaustion, Headaches
Movement: nope not for some time to come
What I am looking forward to: Going pumpkin and apple and picking this weekend.
Milestones: Hearing our babies heartbeat and knowing things were going well.

Maxi has a cold

Poor Max caught himself a bad cold and a fever. Steve took him to the doctor to confirm it was just a cold and now we just have to wait it out. As luck may have it I'm sick too now :(

September 28, 2010

Infant CPR

Thanks to Jaime H. and her awesome CPR notes I'd like to repost here so we never forget how to do it:

Infant CPR basics:
- If it looks like the baby is not breathing, tap her foot or tickle or even lightly pinch her leg, to see if she responds
- If nothing, tilt her head up slightly and put your cheek and ear by her mouth: listen to see if you hear her breathing, see if you can feel breath on your cheek, and watch her chest to see if it’s moving (all done at once to save time)
- If still nothing, if someone else is there, instruct them to find a telephone to call for help. If you’re by yourself BEGIN CPR BEFORE CALLING 911 (this was news to me.)
- To do Infant CPR, tilt the baby’s head up by their chin, open your mouth wide and COVER BOTH THE BABY’S MOUTH AND NOSE. Give 2 breaths and watch to make sure their chest moves. Then WHILE STILL KEEPING THEIR HEAD TILTED BACK, use two fingers in the middle of their chest – about one finger’s width below the imaginary line connecting their nipples – and PUSH DOWN PRETTY HARD (much harder than I would’ve thought) AND FAST, 30 TIMES. It’s important to keep their head tilted back while you’re doing this because this enables the air to get out and not get stuck. After pushing for 30 times, breath 2 breaths again and then another 30 pushes. REPEAT THIS 5 TIMES before calling for help (if you are alone)

Other interesting tid-bits / helpful hints I did not know about before:
- If you call 911 for a medical emergency, they will transfer you to the fire dept. Therefore, you can save time by either a) calling fire dept directly, or b) if you call 911, as soon as they answer and ask ‘what’s your emergency’ – just say “PLEASE TRANSFER ME TO THE FIRE DEPT, I HAVE A MEDICAL EMERGENCY’.
- The avg wait time in California on 911 is 11 minutes!!! Fri and Saturdays are the slowest. That is why it is important to begin CPR and do 5 rounds of it BEFORE calling. After that, if you call and are put on hold or still ringing, you can put the phone next to you (or on speaker). The important thing to know is 4-6 min w/o oxygen to the brain can lead to mild brain damage, 6-8 min leads to medium brain damage, and 8-10 leads to severe. After 10min, a baby could be potentially brain dead. Scary, I know, but that’s why it’s all the more important to start CPR asap!
- Most of you probably know this, but landline is always better to use if possible when calling for help, they can’t trace the cell phones and 911 from a cell phone actually goes to highway patrol.

Last couple things about choking, burns, and poisons (also from the class last night)
- POISON: Be careful of tomato plants, poinsettias, and oleander plants – these are all poisonous if baby touches then puts hands in mouth (I didn’t know that, so thought I’d pass along)
- BURNS: If a baby touches water 130 degrees or hotter, it takes less than 30 seconds to get 2nd and 3rd degree burns. One thing you can do to prevent accidents is to set your water heater to max 120 degrees. If the baby is in 120 degree water, it can still get severe burns but will take 5 minutes, so hopefully you can catch before that.
- CHOKING: If a baby is choking on something, first turn them over, hold them on your forearm, and whack them 5 times in the middle of their back (again, pretty hard), but support their neck/head with your hand so you don’t accidentally shake their heads. After that, if still choking, turn them over and do chest compressions (same as above, 2 fingers, straight down, hard, etc.) for 5 pushes. Then flip over and whack for 5 again. Keep repeating until the thing is out.

Infant CPR

A friend of my sisters sent these great notes on her CPR training and since it's so important I'd like to post it on here...so thanks Jaime H. for the awesome note:

Infant CPR basics:
- If it looks like the baby is not breathing, tap her foot or tickle or even lightly pinch her leg, to see if she responds
- If nothing, tilt her head up slightly and put your cheek and ear by her mouth: listen to see if you hear her breathing, see if you can feel breath on your cheek, and watch her chest to see if it’s moving (all done at once to save time)
- If still nothing, if someone else is there, instruct them to find a telephone to call for help. If you’re by yourself BEGIN CPR BEFORE CALLING 911 (this was news to me.)
- To do Infant CPR, tilt the baby’s head up by their chin, open your mouth wide and COVER BOTH THE BABY’S MOUTH AND NOSE. Give 2 breaths and watch to make sure their chest moves. Then WHILE STILL KEEPING THEIR HEAD TILTED BACK, use two fingers in the middle of their chest – about one finger’s width below the imaginary line connecting their nipples – and PUSH DOWN PRETTY HARD (much harder than I would’ve thought) AND FAST, 30 TIMES. It’s important to keep their head tilted back while you’re doing this because this enables the air to get out and not get stuck. After pushing for 30 times, breath 2 breaths again and then another 30 pushes. REPEAT THIS 5 TIMES before calling for help (if you are alone)

Other interesting tid-bits / helpful hints I did not know about before:
- If you call 911 for a medical emergency, they will transfer you to the fire dept. Therefore, you can save time by either a) calling fire dept directly, or b) if you call 911, as soon as they answer and ask ‘what’s your emergency’ – just say “PLEASE TRANSFER ME TO THE FIRE DEPT, I HAVE A MEDICAL EMERGENCY’.
- The avg wait time in California on 911 is 11 minutes!!! Fri and Saturdays are the slowest. That is why it is important to begin CPR and do 5 rounds of it BEFORE calling. After that, if you call and are put on hold or still ringing, you can put the phone next to you (or on speaker). The important thing to know is 4-6 min w/o oxygen to the brain can lead to mild brain damage, 6-8 min leads to medium brain damage, and 8-10 leads to severe. After 10min, a baby could be potentially brain dead. Scary, I know, but that’s why it’s all the more important to start CPR asap!
- Most of you probably know this, but landline is always better to use if possible when calling for help, they can’t trace the cell phones and 911 from a cell phone actually goes to highway patrol.

Last couple things about choking, burns, and poisons (also from the class last night)
- POISON: Be careful of tomato plants, poinsettias, and oleander plants – these are all poisonous if baby touches then puts hands in mouth (I didn’t know that, so thought I’d pass along)
- BURNS: If a baby touches water 130 degrees or hotter, it takes less than 30 seconds to get 2nd and 3rd degree burns. One thing you can do to prevent accidents is to set your water heater to max 120 degrees. If the baby is in 120 degree water, it can still get severe burns but will take 5 minutes, so hopefully you can catch before that.
- CHOKING: If a baby is choking on something, first turn them over, hold them on your forearm, and whack them 5 times in the middle of their back (again, pretty hard), but support their neck/head with your hand so you don’t accidentally shake their heads. After that, if still choking, turn them over and do chest compressions (same as above, 2 fingers, straight down, hard, etc.) for 5 pushes. Then flip over and whack for 5 again. Keep repeating until the thing is out.

September 27, 2010

First Doctors Appointment

Today Max, Steve and I went to Dr. Dobrenis for our first ultra sound. I was nervous and excited all at the same time. Baby #2 as we like to call him/her is measuring 7 weeks 5 days and is due May 11th. It had a very strong heartbeat and things looked great. We are super excited and relieved that things are progressing nicely and are looking forward to our NT scan in four weeks. Hopefully they can make a guess as to the sex of our next baby so we can give him or her a name :) Here is the family of 4 before our doctors appointment today:


Max learns how to swim


Max has been to two swim classes at the YMCA already and seems to enjoy it. He is in a half hour class with 8 other kids every Saturday. With our next child we will start the class a little later because I feel Max is too young for this right now but it can't hurt and he seems to have fun swimming with daddy.





- Max is feeding himself now with his hands. He can pick up small pieces of food and put it in his mouth.

- He is still sleeping 12 hours a day but Steve now gives him a bottle in the crib in the morning and he goes back to sleep.

- He has started to nap in his crib during the day

- His bedtime routine has a changed a bit since he doesn't fall asleep so easily when I rock him. I put him in bed and he loves to stand up and laugh and get a kiss, then he lays back down with his blankie and do the whole stand up routine over again. We do that 3 times and then I walk out and he will cuddle with his blanket.

- He got is first pair of shoes.

- He enjoys watching cartoons.

- He can climb up stairs.

- He is not walking yet, but will stand up and hold on to something and will walk a little by holding on to something.

September 24, 2010

Weekly Belly Picture- 7 Weeks


How far along? 7 Weeks 3 Day
Total weight gain: 0 pounds w/w, total 2.4 pounds
Body Changes? Pants are starting to get tight around my waist.
Sleep: Sleeping fine, very very tired.
Best moment this week: When Max said Mamma. He can now tell the difference between daddy and mamma.
Gender: No clue. Half of me says girl the other half boy so I have no idea.
Food Cravings: None this week.
What I miss: Sleep and a hot bath.
Symptoms: Extreme Pregnacy Brain. Forgot my wallet on my way to work, took all the car keys leaving Steve stranded, not remembering things. Extreme exhaustion. Nauseous.
Movement: nope not for some time to come
What I am looking forward to: Seeing the doctor for the first time. I just want to know everything is okay.
Milestones: Was eating real healthy until the last two days. Need to get back on diet.

September 16, 2010

The cat is out of the bag...


Today I told my boss that Max is going to have a brother or sister in May. Now it feels more real!

Weekly Belly Picture- 6 Weeks


How far along? 6 Weeks
Total weight gain: .4 pounds w/w, total 2.4 pounds
Body Changes? My entire body is bloated.
Sleep: Sleeping fine, very tired.
Best moment this week: Watching Max in the bathtub knowing he was going to have a sibling soon...it makes my heart swell.
Gender: A girl, however I have the exact same symptoms I had with Max...hmmmm
Food Cravings: Aversion to fruit and eggs
What I miss: A hot bath.
Symptoms:Hormones have leveled off, so that was good. Major Pregnancy Brain...making work very difficult.
Movement: nope not for some time to come
What I am looking forward to: Seeing the doctor for the first time. I just want to know everything is okay.
Milestones: Told my boss I was pregnant today which was a huge relief. I had an error today at work due to my pregnancy brain and so the guy to my right goes "Are you pregnant again?" It caught me off guard and so I asked why he said that to which he responded "Because last time you were pregnant you had major pregnancy brain kinda like now" lollll

September 8, 2010

Max 9 Month Doctor Visit

Steve took him to the doctor today and he is doing great. He got his Hep B shot and cried a little.

He weighs 19.2 pounds and is in the 50th percentile

In Height he is in the 75th percentile

His head is still in the 25th percentile but she said it was totally fine and nothing to worry about.

Things I have forgotten....

You would think having already been pregnant I'd remember all the things I should and shouldn't be doing during pregnancy but given my exhaustion I have decided to do some research. Here are some things to avoid during pregnancy:

You Should Avoid Caffeine


Caffeine taken during pregnancy is thought to increase the probability of a child contracting diabetes. I know they say you can do a cup a day, but I take decaf and only on rare occassations where Max has kept me up at night do I have an acutal cup of coffee.

You Should Avoid Hot Dogs

Hot dogs have been implicated in several studies. (Note: It has also been found that children under the age of five who eat more than 1 hot dog a week may have an increased risk of cancer)

Tick bites
open you to the risk of lyme disease, which can be deadly to your developing baby.

You Should Avoid Fish


This warning comes from the November 27 issue of Time Magazine (page 31). Fish concentrate methylmercury, which is known to affect the developing child's brain.

You Should Not Use a Sauna, Hot Tub or Take Long Hot Baths


Hot tubs and hot baths have a tendency to raise your body temperature and therefore are to be avoided. See the previous item for details.

You Should Avoid Cleaning Cat Litter Boxes. You Should Avoid Uncooked Meat.

Both cat litter and undercooked meat present the risk of toxoplasmosis, which causes birth defects. See this article and this article for details.

Raw Meat:
Uncooked seafood and rare or undercooked beef or poultry should be avoided because of the risk of contamination with coliform bacteria, toxoplasmosis, and salmonella.

Raw Eggs: Raw eggs or any foods that contain raw eggs should be avoided because of the potential exposure to salmonella. Some homemade Caesar dressings, mayonnaise, homemade ice cream or custards, and Hollandaise sauces may be made with raw eggs.


Soft Cheeses:
Imported soft cheeses may contain bacteria called Listeria, which can cause miscarriage. Listeria has the ability to cross the placenta and may infect the baby leading to infection or blood poisoning, which can be life-threatening. You would need to avoid soft cheeses such as: Brie, Camembert, Roquefort, Feta, Gorgonzola and Mexican style cheeses that include queso blanco and queso fresco, unless they clearly state that they are made from pasteurized milk. All soft non-imported cheeses made with pasteurized milk are safe to eat.

There are a ton more, however these are the ones that pertain to me. I guess i need to cut out hot dogs which I have been eating. Otherwise I think I'm doing pretty well :)

Most importantly: i have been taking my Prenatals daily!

5 Week Belly Picture

How far along? 5 Weeks 1 Day
Total weight gain: 2 POUNDS
Body Changes? Boobs are a little bigger, not much.
Sleep: Sleeping fine, very tired.
Best moment this week: Labor day weekend with my boys.
Gender: Don't know but when I was "talking" to my mom, she let it slip it was a girl :)
Food Cravings: Meat, having a small aversion to eggs.
What I miss: I still miss my wine after work.
Symptoms: Very Difficult time focusing. Tired. HORMONES are going crazy.
Movement: nope not for some time to come
What I am looking forward to:September 11th Dinner this weekend and going to the US Open tomorrow.
Milestones: Found out my second blood results were great, things are progressing as they should.

September 6, 2010

Max 9 Months!!!



I can't get over how fast time goes by. We have already had 9 blessed months with our son and we are loving every second of it. Our little baby isn't a baby anymore, he is a little boy and too cute for words. We had great labor day weekend, I'm sad to see the summer come to an end. Max had his last hooray in the pool today before his swim classes begin September 18th at the YMCA.



I have been having such a blast playing with Max who is very interactive and always smiles. He got is two bottom teeth a while ago but today three new ones came in. He got another one on the bottom and two on the top. He crawls around like a maniac and stands up holding on to things and can sit back down from them without falling over which is nice. He has scraped open his feet from crawling around so much so we have to put socks or shoes on his feet now. He has yet to try to really walk on his own, but I don't see that far behind.

We have been trying to feed him solids and increase his food intake which has been difficult for two reasons: He still pukes a lot after having the bottle, and he tries to chew on too much and ends up chocking. I am going to start cooking him new fun things from this great cookbook I bought. Some new things I have introduced him to:

- Avocado and cream cheese mixed together

- Egg Yolk

- Cooked hamburger meat

- Pear and Apple Juice

- Rice cakes

Max also seems to have discovered his private parts and enjoys pulling on it way too hard to the point where it turns red. We have now installed a bath mat in this tub and now he sits during bath time which is great. Since the tumble down the stairs we have removed his walker since it's a huge accident waiting to happen. We aren't taking any chances. I can't wait for Max to meet his brother or sister he loves hanging out with babies his own age. He doesn't have to wait too much longer :)





- Crawls and stands up with ease

- Got three more teeth today and now has five

- Trying to eat solids so he can learn how to chew

- Fallen down Stairs

- He weighs 19.4 pounds

- Says Mamma and Dadda and Nene (little boy in spanish?)

- LOVES to laugh

- Starting to get separation anxiety and wants me, daddy or Maria to hold him.

- He loves to cuddle



Max taking the floor apart and chewing on it:










The love affair between Chloe and Max remains in full swing:




September 2, 2010

4 Week Belly Picture


How far along? 4 Weeks
Total weight gain: 0...starting weight 125lbs
Body Changes? Boobs are a little bigger.
Sleep: Sleeping fine, very tired.
Best moment this week: Finding out I was pregnant while watching the Emmys.
Gender: Don't know but I had a dream about a boys name.
Food Cravings: Meat
What I miss: My white wine after work...I really miss that.
Symptoms: Spotting for the first few days before my period. Difficult time focusing. Tired. Boobs tingle.
Movement: nope not for some time to come
What I am looking forward to: Hearing from the doctor tomorrow about my blood results
Milestones: Got pregnant in my first month! Went to doctor today to get my blood taken to make sure everything was okay because I have been spotting, especially after Max fell down the stairs. It's been a rough week. Also needed to get a Rhogam shot.

September 1, 2010

Officially Pregnant!!!


We are so excited and looking forward to bringing our new addition into this world. Tomorrow I have to go by the doctor since I've still been spotting and so they have to give me the rhogam shot and will take a blood test to make sure everything is okay. I can't believe our family is expanding!

Angels must have been watching....

It's the only thing that explains how Max can fall down an entire flight of stairs and walk away with only a few bruises. To say last night was one of the worsts nights of my life is an understatement. The fear that grips you when your child gets hurt due to something you did is something you never really get over.
Last night I got home and Steve and I were talking upstairs (gate was closed as always) and we were saying how we should go outside and sit in the yard. That is when the misunderstanding took place, one that could have ended much worse than it luckily did. I walked downstairs leaving the gate open thinking that Max and Steve were right behind me. Steve thought I had closed the door and put Max on the floor and within a minute we could hear our son tumbling down the stairs. The screams and thumps as he went down ia something that will give me nightmares for some time to come. Steve and I raced over to him, where we found him face first on the floor. He had a little blood by his mouth, a scratch by the corner of his eye and a red Head where you could tell that bruises were about to form. He was scared and in pain and screaming bloody murder. Steve and I ran out of the house and drove to the Stamford Emergency room.

I was sobbing as I brought Max in to be seen which they immediately did. They called in the Trauma unit to speed things up at which point he was given some benedryl to calm him down and make him sleep so they could perform a cat scan on him (they can only perform a cat scan once on a baby since the radiation levels are too high, and therefore he must be laying very still). However the medication only made him more awake. He finally stopped crying and Maria showed up crying checking his entire body for injuries (she is a nurse). She said she liked the fact that his bruises were outwardly raised, showing that the injuries were on the outside and not in his brain. Phew, at least one good sign. Max did vomit a small amount which made them want to do the cat scan even more, however given his alert status he seemed to be doing just fine. In the midst of all this chaos my father calls me to yell at me and ask me how this could happen. Just what I needed as I'm having a nervous breakdown. Thankfully my stepmom came and brought us some food and was there to calm us down. A few hours later after several failed attempts to get him to sleep for the cat scan they give him a sedative which should have been fast acting, but didn't do a thing to him. At this point it's almost 11pm at night and we are all exhaustedddddd. Which is when the doctor said they were going to hook him up to IV's and really sedate him. Before doing so though they needed us to sign some forms informing us that he could have difficulty breathing on his own until the medication wears off and that he will be closely watched and hooked up to monitors. Of course just what every parent wants to hear...more risks! So after everything that has gone on, they hold him down and try to find a vein to put the IV in. They never found one, at which point I had to go home and lay down. I was exhausted, Steve and Max and Maria weren't far behind. They finally taped him down so they could do the catscan which showed no signs of trauma and he was finally allowed to come home where I put him to sleep. He was down the moment he finished his bottle. Maria spent the night so she could monitor him the whole night and I went to work the following morning. It's been a very scary experience, and a miscommunication error between Steve and I that will never happen again. No matter how careful you always are, it takes one second of miscommunication for something really bad to happen. Luckily this time he had angels watching over him.

The following day he woke up and was back to his normal self. Only a very small bruise on his face and a scratch by his eye. Poor daddy had a rough time, crying most of the morning. I think we were both very rattled.